JADON
“Give thanks in all circumstances.”
I Thessalonians 5:12-18
Luke 7:36-50
Our
niece Laura and her husband Gideon have had a baby. They knew that the child would be a boy, but
they were not forthcoming about what he would be called. So there was much speculation about his name
in the weeks before he was born. Then we
were given a clue. His name would be
from the Old Testament just like his father's.
Then another clue, it would have five letters, so Isobel and I
immediately thought of David. Then came
the day of his birth, and his name was Jadon.
Not even his grandfather Ron, whose eyebrows were raised when he was
told, and who had been a minister
trained in the Bible, had ever heard the name before -- "where on earth is
Jadon in the Bible?" -- he
asked? So as the expert on such matters,
I was brought into solve the mystery. I,
too, was confounded for once. But after
a search I found Jadon lurking in an obscure text in one of the lesser read known
in the Old Testament, Nehemiah chapter 3 verse 7. The story is about the rebuilding of the
Temple in Jerusalem after the exile:
"Joiada son of
Paseah and Meshullam son of Besodelah repaired the Old Gate, they laid its
beams and set up its doors, its bolts and its bars. Next to them repairs were made by Melatiah
the Gibeonite and Jadon the Meronothite -- the men of Gibeon and Mizpah -- who
were under the jurisdiction pof the governor of the province beyond the
River."
Well,
they could have called him Joiada or Meshullam or Melatiah, Ron, so be grateful
they decided on Jadon the Meronothite!
But therein lies the clue. For
Jadon in Hebrew means "gratitude" or "thanksgiving." Suddenly baby Jadon's name had rich meaning. He is not only a potential builder -- useful
to know that these days when plumbers, electricians and builders are in such
demand -- but above all, he is a sign of gratitude. And, in addition, these
days when baby names have become an industry, it is different and in another
league to Sugar-Pie. Jadon has class We can not only live with that; we can
rejoice with Laura and Gideon in their giving thanks to God for the gift of a
son, their first-born. Welcome Jadon
into the family and the world. One day
we might need your building skills on Volmoed!
Today,
being the third Thursday in November, is Thanksgiving Day in the United
States. More so than any religious
festival whether it be Christmas or some other, this is the celebration nobody
wants to miss. I know from experience that to catch a flight in America during
Thanksgiving week, especially in weather like they are having at the moment, is
to experience absolute chaos and bedlam at the airports as millions of people
travel home for the celebration. Everybody
wants to be home for Thanksgiving. It is
a splendid family occasion. We have been
to several over the years as we were last November in Atlanta, and will be
going this evening to Thanksgiving in Pinelands!
In Hebrew we will be celebrating the feast of Jadon!
St. Paul
encourages us to “give thanks in all circumstances.” When all is going well and Spring is in the
air; when we wake to a fresh dawn anticipating all that the new day will bring,
it is difficult not to be grateful. Or when you have given birth to a newborn
baby and are looking for a name,, Jadon immediately comes to mind, at least if
you have been reading Nehemiah in Hebrew!
But there are times in our lives when being thankful is the last thing
that spring to mind. When we are gripped
by anxiety or fear, shaken by sorrow or struck down by illness and pain, plunged
into bouts of depression and melancholy, or just downright angry, we don’t
normally erupt into prayers or songs of thanksgiving. We would be a little peculiar if we oozed
with gratitude when we crashed our car, or were the victim of fraud or robbery,
or fell seriously ill. And we would be
surprised if the victims of famine, fire, earthquake and drought gave thanks
for what has happened to them.
Yet is
it not true that people who have the most things in life are often the least
grateful and the most greedy because they think they are all-sufficient. And, by contrast, people who have very little
in terms of this world’s goods are often the most grateful because they know
they are dependent on the love of God and the generosity of others. And that, of course, is what our gospel
reading is about today. Unlike those
religious legalists who sat at table with Jesus, it was the woman who knew she
was so dearly loved and forgiven who showed gratitude in wiping Jesus feet with
her tears and costly oil. Gratitude is a
way in which we express our love.
The
Christian way of life, we might say, is meant to be an expression of gratitude
to God.
That is
one reason why we gather here each Thursday to celebrate this meal of
thanksgiving or Eucharist, for that is what the word means. “Let us give thanks
to the Lord our God” we say, “… it is indeed our joy to give you thanks always
and everywhere.” Celebrating the
Eucharist each week together is a way of shaping our lives into a pattern of
gratitude that should be expressed in love and compassion day by day. And saying grace or a prayer of thanksgiving
at meal time is a daily reminder that this is so as we remember God's goodness
but also pray for those who have far less than we have.
Thanksgiving
also empowers us as we face life day by day, especially in difficult times when
thanksgiving brings to mind good and helpful memories. Writing from prison as his own future grew
increasingly dark, Dietrich Bonhoeffer told his friend Eberhard Bethge: “the
power of memories returns again and again through the power of gratitude.” The power of gratitude! I find that a
remarkable insight that takes us to the heart of the Christian gospel.
Gratitude does not take away our pain or sorrow, but it helps us regain
perspective and embark on the journey of healing and renewal. For how do we cope with the death of a loved
one except by being grateful for precious memories and thankful for the support
of friends? The awakening of a sense of
gratitude likewise enables us to recognize that everything of real value is a
gift from God whether life itself or the love and care we receive from
others. So today as we give thanks in
remembrance of Christ, we renew our commitment to live gratefully. Thanks Jadon for reminding us!
John de
Gruchy
Volmoed 27 November 2014